Sugar, Sugar!: Amy Deacon on Sugar Addiction & Anxiety

I have a full blown sugar addiction.  I have for years, and I’m sure that if sugar were taken as seriously as heroin, I would have been admitted into rehab years ago.  What also makes my sugar addiction a real addiction is the SHAME.  Holy Moly.

Just to highlight the lengths I would go to in order to cover my tracks:

  1. I had a secret stash.
  2. When my husband told me he was going out, I would get SO EXCITED knowing I could binge without judgment.
  3. When hubby was out, I would BINGE beyond the point of discomfort.  My body would be in all sorts of pain.  I would even get sweats!

While over the past couple of years I’ve gotten much better at moderating my intake (which I contribute to creating an overall better relationship with food), this past weekend was no Bueno!

It was Greek Easter.  And I don’t know if it’s every Greek household or just our own, but if you are not passed out in a food coma post meal, something was wrong with the food and you’ve just insulted your host.  While I left a little early to put our babe to bed, my husband was so kind and brought me back a plate of desserts.  Which I devoured.  In one sitting.  My stomach felt off but I went to bed.  However, throughout the night, I woke up periodically in a panic.  And while it was only momentary, I felt frantic – and that really bothered me.

The more I reflected, the more I came to realize that historically speaking, there’s a pretty strong relationship between my sugar consumption and feeling anxious.  And that’s not cool.  It sounds terrible – but honestly, I can tolerate sugar messing with my body for a day or two.  But my head?  No way!  I don’t have time to knowingly invite anxiety into my life.  So I’m making a firm decision.  I’m going to go 40 days with no added, refined, processed sugars.

I don’t care to get to a place where my life is completely void of sugar; however, I don’t want it disrupting me as I allowed it to this past weekend.  And if cutting it out reduces anxiety, increases energy and makes me feel better overall – I’m down.  Wish me luck!  And if you have any tips or suggestions, send them my way 🙂

 

Amy Deacon is currently accepting new counselling clients at the Toronto Wellness Centre. Please call 416-920-2722 or send us an inquiry to schedule your therapy appointment.

This blog was originally published on Toronto Wellness Counselling.

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Loving Your Libido: Women’s Sexual Health & Intimacy Workshop

Ladies, are you interested in prioritizing your sexual fulfillment and learning more about relationship dynamics, self-love, and so-called “normal sex”? Join Naturopathic Doctor Kate McLaird ND and Mental Health Therapist Amy Deacon for this informative, fun, and free workshop all about women’s sexual health and intimacy!
 
From culture and consent to porn and masturbation, Kate and Amy are ready to talk about the physical and emotional sides of women’s sexual experiences in a judgement free zone. Refreshments will be provided, and questions will be answered!
 
The Loving Your Libido event is free, however we will be collecting donations of toiletries and feminine hygiene products (unopened) for women in need. If you would like more information, please don’t hesitate to ask!
 
Space is limited for this amazing workshop, so email the Toronto Wellness Centre or call 416-920-2722 to get on the list. This workshop is open to women identifying people of all ages and backgrounds, LGBTQ+ are welcome!
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Free 15-Minute Counselling Consults with Therapist Amy Deacon at the Toronto Wellness Centre

Starting therapy can be daunting, especially as how you fit with a new counsellor is of such great importance on your journey. We are pleased to give you the opportunity, without booking in advance, to have a free 15-minute consultation here at the Toronto Wellness Centre.

Visit us at 12 Wellesley St. West on Tuesday February 6th between 5pm and 7pm to meet Clinical Social Worker Amy Deacon.

If you are unable to make it to the drop in event but would like to connect with Amy over the phone, please call 647-952-2368.

 

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The Heart of the Matter

We go to physicians to examine our bodies; dentists to inspect our teeth; chiropractors to explore the curvature in our spines – but what about our hearts?  When was the last time your heart had a check up?  When I speak of heart, I’m referring to the centre of you as a person; the space where you express and experience emotion, affection, enthusiasm and spirit.  It’s an important question, as it is only when there is a healthy flow within our hearts that we can truly be at our best.  Let me explain, when our hearts are healthy, we have space for our emotions to flow with ease; energy for the things that matter most; and perspective to appreciate the lives we have.

​The flow within our hearts helps determine our ability to be present in relationships, focused at work and responsive to our mental, emotional and physical needs.  However, for many of us, having a healthy flow can be a daily struggle.  Throughout life, we experience betrayal and regret, frustration and anger, sadness and loss – many of which are normal parts of life.  However, when such experiences remain unresolved, we risk creating a ‘build up’, which blocks the flow of our hearts.  As such, genuine feelings of love and happiness are difficult to experience because we’re clogged with lingering resentment, anger,guilt and fear.  This lack of flow can stifle our most important relationships with our partners, families, colleagues, and most importantly, ourselves.

If this is something you relate with, please know you are not alone.  All of us experience chapters in our lives in which we feel our hearts are blocked.  And the good news is that there is so much you can do to get your heart flowing as it is meant to.  Connecting with a therapist, joining a support group or spending quality time with those closest to you are great ways of mending your heart. As a therapist, my work is to help individuals safely explore the contents of one’s heart, including both your strengths, as well as those areas that are in need of restoration. Remember – your heart is the most central part of who you are, so do take the time to check in, and give it the attention it so deserves.

 

Amy Deacon is currently accepting new counselling clients at the Toronto Wellness Centre. Please call 416-920-2722 or send us an inquiry to schedule your therapy appointment.

This blog was originally published on Toronto Wellness Counselling.

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New Years Resolutions Goal Setting Guide Free Download

Happy New Year!

2018 is going to bring new changes and challenges, and luckily the team here at the Toronto Wellness Centre is here to help!

If your resolution is to get more Me-Time, our Registered Massage Therapists Nick and Almarielsa are the best place to start.

If back, knee, or neck pain is standing in the way of your fitness goals, book your chiropractic appointment with Dr. Cartile today!

And if your resolution is weight loss, increased fertility, lower stress, better skin, more energy, quitting smoking, or a more balanced diet that puts your health first, Dr. Kate McLaird ND is ready to meet you!

 

Whatever your resolutions are this year, you’ll find our free downloadable Goal Setting Guide is a great asset to get you on your way. Download it here: NYE resolution handout

 

Call 416-920-2722 or book online to get started on your 2018 wellness journey!

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Banish the Holiday Bloat! Tips from the Toronto Wellness Centre’s Naturopath Dr. Kate!

We have all been there, with an endless supply of wine and cheeses, family members encouraging thirds of Christmas dinner, or the cornucopia of decadent desserts, eventually your digestion system will tell you “enough is enough” and make it known its not too happy with what you are putting it through. Despite the endorphin release from indulging in your favourite foods, bloating, flatulence, excess abdominal fat and indigestion often ensue to help steer you towards more health conscious choices.

Here are few of the main culprits that can be behind your bloated belly and a few tips to help your body cope:

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Toronto Wellness Centre’s Healthy Happy Holidays 2017 Gift Guide

‘Tis the season for giving! If you’re looking for a gift that will benefit your loved ones well into the New Year, you’ve come to the right place! The Toronto Wellness Centre’s Healthy Happy Holidays 2017 Gift Guide is here to help you choose the best present for the wellness focused on your list!

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